Eric with a C — Toxic Jealousy
Content note: jealousy, coercion, substance use, sexual consent Born 1977 We were the same age. We were together roughly from 2017 to 2020. When I met him, I was living on social assistance—no social ties,…
Ben — The Prince Who Promised, Then Poisoned
When I met Ben, I was ready for a new beginning. I was 35, had lost 75 kilos in two years thanks to a gastric bypass, and—for the first time—felt comfortable in my own skin.…
2003: A Year of Darkness
Content note: domestic violence, depression, self-harm On paper, my life looked almost perfect:I had a successful career as an ORACLE developer at Credit Suisse—a secure, well-paid job. An introverted, loving partner, Ralf—rational, reliable. A nice…
Nice to the Abyss – The Beginning with Clay
I arrived in Nice like all tourists: dazzled by the glamour of the Promenade des Anglais, the charm of the old town, and the Mediterranean sun reflecting off spotless façades. Gucci bags everywhere, stylish people…
How Dependent Personality Disorder Can Undermine Relationships
Humans are wired for connection. Healthy interdependence is part of a good life—but total emotional dependence isn’t. This post looks at Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD): how it shows up, why it can be such a…
Under Suspicion: Toxic Jealousy
When Love Turns Into Suspicion Do you suffer because your partner constantly questions your motives and loyalty? Even though he may have many lovable qualities, his lack of trust repeatedly sparks conflict? A closer look…